A partner, a companion, a relationship, a spouse is a mate referring to either husband or wife; the key difference between spouse and partner is that a spouse is a married person, husband or wife, while a partner is not legally married but maintains a domestic partnership or a romantic relationship with another; this is depending on their resources, experiences and objectivity. From storytelling onto creation it is not good for man to be alone so a suitable companion to be helper to assist as bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh someone to walk with go for come to, someone to have and to hold; great is the mystery of love a gift of the spirit manifested in the flesh. A mastery is for the master with a master’s key belonging to a set with specified roles the role of servant, the role of queen is not the role of mistress ‘one man’s meat is another man’s poison and variety is the spice of life’. Great service is special and valued enough to merit the place of madam due to longevity availability a practice that calls for serious attention; the trauma of nagging behavior sends people out to seek comfort elsewhere instead of reprimanding noise making, clap and seek fun and company from another place outside of home but you come back to the same ritual; the choice is yours “if na ma choice — — -“
A traditional marriage according to the historical norms of most cultures and modern society usually is for the primary purpose of establishing a family; although prenuptial customs vary in different cultures, a traditional marriage generally follows a period of courtship, public announcement of wedding plans, and a wedding ceremony. The ideal situation is where mother father and child live in same home with the head taking care of most needs of the family assisted by the mother; in the traditional plot where everything is in its place and routine has a way with the order and protocol; they are thought to practice kindness and forgiveness, ignore trivial stuff and laugh together. Happiness is experienced in this traditional setting having enjoyed many years of marital bliss we relate we render an account of our well being, we make a show of or a connection with relating to matters like feelings, empathy, sympathy and care because we are all concerned as we are all identified. It takes a little work on positive communication because it is challenging, grows with accuracy at best when both know the charming reward sweet behavior gets, one good turn deserves another.
